I used to think that love is about trust. Its about sharing yourself with a person and knowing that he or she will always be there to catch you. It is about being totally equal in a relationship. Not losing a sense of who you are just to please the other person.
I truly believe that old saying that you have to love yourself before you can love another person because when your in love it is difficult to hold onto your sense of self.
Somehow the definitions seem to be changing. Love nowadays is about expensive gifts and dinners. These might be a way of showing your love for another person. But, what a hug and a short sentence saying" I am there for you" can do, no amount of gifts can do the same.
I truly believe that old saying that you have to love yourself before you can love another person because when your in love it is difficult to hold onto your sense of self.
Somehow the definitions seem to be changing. Love nowadays is about expensive gifts and dinners. These might be a way of showing your love for another person. But, what a hug and a short sentence saying" I am there for you" can do, no amount of gifts can do the same.
I agree totally gifts and dinners are fine they have become a part of today's love package but what really makes your life blissful is that calm that invades your soul and forces your lips to smile, the clamor of that zillion bells that ring inside saying he is there by my side.
ReplyDeleteNice one re... Finally seein dat Ur brains r openin up... its really nice to see dat U r finally thinkinso deep nd not jus being drawn by outward show... remember this that every relationship is like a candle burnin bright but only that realtion lasts in which the flame is protected by both frm the wind... keep it up young lady...
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hear hear!!!
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